Beyond just sharing their personal stories, the Real Ex's believe that everyone has been an "ex" at some point in their lives, whether it be as a former spouse, partner, employee, family member, or friend. They seek to redefine the often-negative connotations associated with being an ex, focusing instead on the positive aspects of moving on, setting boundaries, and finding strength in letting go of toxic relationships.

Their vision is to create a wave of empowerment and support for women by sharing stories of heartache and healing, fostering a sense of community and sisterhood where women can uplift and serve one another. Through regular social events, networking opportunities, and a platform for members to connect and support each other, the Real Ex's aim to empower women from diverse backgrounds to reach their full potential.