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“We are all untold stories”
— The Real Exs
How the podcast started
The genesis of The Real Ex’s of Portland Podcast can be traced back to a series of intimate and soul-stirring conversations among a group of remarkable women: Heather, Deri, Sofie, and Amy. United by their shared experiences with a figure known simply as Mr. X, these resilient individuals found solace, strength, and healing in each other's company. As the world grappled with the challenges brought about by the COVID-19 pandemic, these women forged a bond that transcended mere friendship, evolving into a supportive network of kindred spirits navigating the complexities of love, loss, and personal growth.
In the midst of their monthly gatherings, which served as a lifeline during times of uncertainty and isolation, Amy conceived the idea of hosting a Pure Romance party—an event that would not only celebrate femininity and empowerment but also create a safe space for candid conversations about intimacy, self-worth, and the myriad challenges faced by women, particularly those in their forties and beyond. What began as a casual gathering in Amy's cozy living room soon blossomed into a profound exploration of the struggles and triumphs that define the female experience, shedding light on issues that are often relegated to the shadows of societal discourse.
It quickly became apparent to the group, lovingly dubbed The Real Ex’s, that there was a palpable hunger for authentic dialogue and genuine connection among women who grapple with issues ranging from mental health and body image to relationship dynamics and the physical manifestations of aging. Through a series of heartfelt living room gatherings, these courageous women unearthed a shared sense of vulnerability, resilience, and resilience—a collective experience that underscored the universal need for empathy, understanding, and validation in a world that often marginalizes and silences the voices of women.
Inspired by the transformative power of these gatherings and fueled by a deep-seated desire to effect positive change within their community, Sofie, and Amy embarked on a groundbreaking journey—one that would culminate in the creation of The Real Ex’s of Portland Podcast. Drawing upon their own experiences, insights, and hard-won wisdom, these trailblazing women set out to amplify the voices of women from all walks of life, offering a platform where stories are shared, wounds are healed, and connections are forged across the vast expanse of human experience.
With unwavering dedication and a shared commitment to fostering a culture of compassion, inclusivity, and empowerment, The Real Ex’s embarked on a mission to redefine the narrative surrounding women's issues, challenging stereotypes, dismantling barriers, and paving the way for a more equitable and understanding society. Through their podcast, these visionary women sought to create a space where every woman—regardless of age, background, or circumstance—could find solace, inspiration, and a sense of belonging in a world that often fails to recognize the inherent worth and resilience of the female spirit.